In a twist of fate that defied the ominous connotations of Friday the 13th, a couple turned one of the “unluckiest” days of the year into the happiest day of their lives. Hannah and Matthew Parfitt from Pontypridd, UK, chose to tie the knot in a cemetery, creating a scene that was both unconventional and heartwarming.
From Halloween to Friday, the 13th
Originally, the couple had their hearts set on a Halloween wedding. However, concerns about potential rainfall led them to reconsider. As they searched for an alternative date, they landed on Friday, the 13th. Hannah and Matthew exchanged vows in October last year, marking the day as “pretty perfect.”
Why cemetery?
When asked about their choice of venue, the 27-year-old bride, Hannah, shared with the BBC, “I’ve always really liked them. I just find them quite peaceful.” Her husband, Matthew, added, “We haven’t had any bad luck yet, have we?” The couple recently moved into a new house, further solidifying their belief that their choice was fortuitous. “No, we’ve been pretty good,” Hannah confirmed.
A gothic celebration
In keeping with the unique theme of their wedding, the couple opted for an all-black color theme. Matthew donned a black suit paired with a white shirt and a tie adorned with skulls. Hannah stunned in a black wedding gown, complete with a matching veil, designed by alternative wedding dress designer Samantha Buca.
Buca, who created Hannah’s gown, noted the superstitious nature of Friday the 13th, stating that she typically avoids scheduling dress fittings or pickups on this date due to its negative connotations. “I don’t believe in superstitions but tend not to get people booking in to look at wedding dresses or picking up their dresses on Friday the 13th,” she remarked.
The origins of an ominous date
The superstition surrounding Friday the 13th has deep historical roots, though its exact origin remains unclear. According to the BBC, Christian beliefs play a significant role in its ill repute. Friday is tied to misfortune through the crucifixion of Jesus and the betrayal by Judas, the 13th guest at the Last Supper.
Historically, Friday was known as “hangman’s day” during medieval times due to the frequent executions that occurred. This added to the day’s dark reputation, making it synonymous with bad luck.
Despite the myths and superstitions, Hannah and Matthew Parfitt’s wedding stands as a testament to the power of love to overcome even the most deeply ingrained fears. Their story is a reminder that sometimes, the unluckiest days can turn out to be “pretty perfect.”