Here are a few reasons why fearful avoidants avoid conflicts
Perceive conflict as a threat
They perceive conflicts and chaos as a potential threat to their relationship stability, and instead of addressing the issues, they opt to avoid them.
Difficulty expressing their needs
As they are afraid of rejection, they also have difficulty in expressing their needs, wants and expectations.
Blaming themselves
Individuals with a fearful avoidant attachment style often blame themselves for any issues, attempting to take responsibility for their actions rather than addressing the problem.
Struggle to compromise
They struggle to comprehend their partner's perspective and find common ground to agree on.