Few signs of having the father wound

Fear of abandonment

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Growing up with a father wound can lead to difficulty in intimacy and vulnerability with romantic partners due to fear of rejection and abandonment.

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Not being ourselves

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Our constant belief that we are not liked and loved hinders us from being our true selves in the presence of others.

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Closeness and intimacy

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Even though we crave closeness and intimacy, we are also uncomfortable with it because they seem foreign to us.

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People-pleasing nature

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We prioritize pleasing others due to fear of being disliked and pushed away, as we are constantly pursuing them to avoid negative consequences.

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Dismissing ourselves

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We dismiss us and our needs constantly and try to put the needs of others first.

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