A TikToker known as @kaybeecees has gone viral after sharing controversial advice for American women in response to Donald Trump’s recent election victory. In a video titled “Women – take these steps,” she issued a call to action for women to make what she describes as protective decisions, urging them to reconsider relationships with partners who voted for Trump. The message is resonating with some and stirring intense debate with others.
“If he voted for that man, you need to leave him. You need to leave him,” she stated firmly. “I know you love him, I know you think he can change…but especially if you are married to him, you are in danger right now. You are in a lot of danger.”
“Make a Plan”: Advice for women to protect their safety and reproductive rights
In the video, the influencer advised women to take specific steps to safeguard their safety and reproductive autonomy under a Trump administration. She warned against getting pregnant, recommending women delete period-tracking apps out of concerns for privacy and potential repercussions. “I took the morning to grieve. That’s all the time we had, now is your time to start making a plan,” she said, alluding to the urgency she feels is needed.
Drawing on the controversy surrounding the 2022 Dobbs decision and the restrictive six-week abortion bans in several states, she urged her followers to consider privacy implications, warning that period-tracking data could “end up criminalizing women for abortions or miscarriages.”
Extreme measures for women: Self-defense, prenups, and personal safety
The TikToker, who resides in rural Alabama, shared her skepticism regarding traditional relationships, urging single women to avoid marriage altogether. She cautioned those considering marriage to insist on a strong prenuptial agreement but expressed doubts about future divorce protections. “If you do, get a really, really strong prenup, but I can’t promise you that that’s going to be honored,” she said. She further advocated for self-defense, advising women to take classes or carry a weapon to protect themselves, saying this step is critical so they “don’t get [raped].”
Addressing critics: “I’m not trying to trigger panic”
As the video gained attention, @kaybeecees addressed those questioning her strong stance. She clarified her intention, explaining, “I’m just being very real, we are having a heart-to-heart right now. I need you to hear me.” She insisted she wasn’t aiming to incite fear, but rather to prepare women, saying, “I know it’s gonna be OK … because we’re going to make sure it’s gonna be OK.”
In a follow-up, she warns of potential risks
In response to the first video’s virality, @kaybeecees posted a follow-up video, answering questions from viewers and doubling down on her concerns about safety under Trump’s presidency. “The worst men among us have now been emboldened,” she remarked, referencing Trump’s win over Kamala Harris. “You can absolutely expect [rape] and [domestic violence] to increase nationwide.”
Her remarks have sparked a storm of discussion on social media, with many applauding her perspective on women’s safety while others condemn her advice as extreme. With growing visibility, her videos have opened up conversations around women’s rights, safety, and the implications of the political climate on personal relationships.
